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Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 05:45:00 +0000

Oh yes, I miss Henry (& Ginny, but honestly, mainly Henry) so so so much. I miss having a cat. It’s like a part of me is missing, but then, another phrase, you can’t stay together for the kids, and Adam won’t let me have him. Frodo is feeling it too, I believe, I think he’s fretting. I’ve not given up, i’ve made it so far. I’ve had some bumps the past few months, but it has shown me that i’m stronger then I though. It’s just hard. I find sometimes getting it out, even this small post here helps.

Comment on One of those days. by Moe a.k.a. @biggirlblue

Moe a.k.a. @biggirlblue — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 04:29:00 +0000

It may sound cliche but it does get better, it does get worse again, but it gets better again. The good thing is that with each worse part it gets easier to handle (in retrospect anyway). As long as you keep trying you are never really a failure. You only fail at life if you give up completely and the fact that you have posted here shows that you haven’t. I do find it interesting though that this has arrived shortly on the heels of visiting your babies. And of course physical pain makes everything worse. To coin another cliche, this too shall pass. Just take care of yourself, get lots of sleep when you can, eat your meals, drink lots of water — some motherly advice from the anti-mother.

Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:56:00 +0000

It can be, which is why i’m just so tired of it. I remember my Mum telling me one day that there was a time when she didn’t think i’d make it to 18 & i’m now 25. It proves i’m stronger then I think, but sometimes, its just so so so hard. *hugs*

Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:55:00 +0000

*hugs* I know that feeling!

Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:53:00 +0000

*hugs* Thank you.

Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:50:00 +0000

I know i’ll get back up again, I always do. It’s just so hard. I know it’s just one of my down periods, and that i’ve made a lot of progress in many ways, it’s just days like these that I feel like i’ve actually gone backwards a few steps. My head focuses on the negatives & not the positives.

Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:48:00 +0000

Thanks. I know in many ways i’m not a failure, but when i’m down like this, it’s harder to see the positives. I’d love to study, but I can’t afford it and i’m not sure how i’d go with it, I’d love to do it long distance. I’m still not sure what I want to do with my life, what I can do with it. I’d love to get a part time job, but no one wants to hire a 25 year old who hasn’t worked in 5 years. It’s just tough. Living back home with my parents hasn’t been easy either, I feel like i’ve taken a few steps back in life.

Comment on One of those days. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:46:00 +0000

*hugs* Thank you. It’s just been day after day and it just gets to you. It’s very much how you say it is. I keep on keeping on though. I think the pain from falling down the stairs has just made everything less tolerable.

Comment on OOTD Failure & Sydney Storms. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:45:00 +0000

*hugs* Thank you, I love the colour of the dress, such a vibrant red.

Comment on OOTD Failure & Sydney Storms. by Natalie Mulford

Natalie Mulford — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:44:00 +0000

Thank you! It’s such a gorgeous dress, I love it so much. It was a crazy storm! My room ended up flooding and power didn’t come back on for 4 or so hours!